One of the most important roles coaches play in preparing players for competition and life is to give them a chance to develop good character.
We expect a game plan for coaching the X’s and O’s of our sport. What isn’t always clear is how to coach character. Over time we have seen an ever-growing gap develop between coaching the fundamental aspects of a specific sport and the development of quality character. Character Coaches exist to fill this crucial gap in developing the complete athlete.
When discussing the role of a Character Coach it is important to know the difference between a Character Coach and a Chaplain. Both roles are critically important but distinctively different. Which role you play with a team is determined by the audience. When it comes to using sports to reach out youth, Character Coaching is the ultimate "stand-in-the-gap" position you could ever imagine.
Character Coach | Chaplain |
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Values Based | Faith Based |
The goal is to teach character/leadership qualities | The goal is to provide spiritual guidance and direction |
Coaches can make it manditory | Coaches must make it optional |
Model + Inform | Model + Inform + Convert |
A wide variety of people can serve the people of sport as Character Coaches. One need not be a sport ministry professional to faithfully serve and to significantly impact the lives of coaches and athletes.
Among those who could serve in this role are:
FCA wants to provide teams with the best-trained, most effective Character Coaches that they can, so we have created a process:
Character Coach Essentials
Character Coach Guidelines
Keys To Being An Effective Character Coach
To effectively serve the people of sport as their Character Coach; focus on the people and win their trust through serving them; watch your attitude; be in the right place at the right time; and keep strategies and methods secondary to the relational emphasis.
• Be Brief.
- Stay under 7 minutes!
- Time yourself as you prepare. Do not abuse the Coach’s wishes…this is the quickest way to lose respect and trust.
• Be Personal.
- Sharing a personal story or experience makes a great impact and it will help you connect with the audience.
• Be Simple.
- Do not try to cover too much information. Be simple and focused. Give them something they can remember and repeat.
• Be Motivational.
- Remember that these athletes are about to go into (or have just finished) intense competition. Always try to end your message with a charge for them to take action! What is it that you want them to do as a result of what they have just heard?
One of the roles of the Character Coach would be to give brief (7-10 minute) ‘character talks’ or lessons each week to the team. The following links contains 20 ‘character talks’ or lessons that revolve around a specific character trait. These lessons are a powerful resource and are to be used as a guide for an FCA Character Coach.
Ministry Leadership Application
Employment Opportunites
THE FOUR - Gospel
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